Hi, I’m Cassady & this is Wallflowers

Hi! I’m Cassady. I’m a 31-year old native Seattlite who is constantly pondering all of life’s most important questions: What reality tv show should I watch next? And: How can I eat pasta for dinner every night?

I have a lot of loves in this world, top of the list being my husband Jake, our two tabby cats, Ollie & Benji, and our newest addition: a mini-daschund named Ember. I am a recovering perfectionist, a tattoo enthusiast, and a lover of houseplants and 90s sitcoms.

I started this blog mostly because I have been in a bit of an early 30s crisis of sorts. I’ve been struggling with how to find meaning in my 30s, when a lot of what I liked to do in my 20s doesn’t sustain me anymore. And out of that question comes another one: How do I maintain a creative life full of art and beautiful things while trying to outrun the pressures of our world?

This blog is a little exploration of all the things I’m learning and all the ways I am healing, and how I’m finding meaning in my third decade of life.

Thanks for being here and following along if you’ve read this far <3